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The Martine Family

Welcome to our blog! We thank you for stopping in and checking in on the day to day happenings of our fabulous family! This is just a window into a bigger story, the story the Lord is writing in us!

Monday, December 12, 2011

I saw what I saw ... and I won't forget it!

"Mom, I don't want to leave", I heard him say as we made our way through security.  Looking over at my beautiful 11 year old whose eyes were filled with tears,  I realized it had happened to him too.  Those darn Ethiopians had done to him what they do best, those thieves had stolen his heart!

This was my prayer ... THIS was my greatest prayer!   That my family would see in them what I did - JOY, LOVE, and HIM!

75 LONG hours of travel chaos into a new culture they had never experienced, into orphanages and into the lives of children that now had become a face rather than a statistic gleaned more than any $ amount could tell.   Too much money to mention to make that all happen and yet, watching my children come alive was the most priceless gift the Lord could have ever given me is still indescribable!

He arrested their hearts.  He showed them himself in the children they loved.  They couldn't necessarily put it into words at 11 and 9, yet then again ... at 37, I find myself stumbling through trying to find the perfect ones to summarize it all.   Impossible!

Our trip to Ethiopia is one that will not soon be forgotten in our home.  I watched as my blue eyed beauty came into her own.  As she handed her water (and her lollipops and granola bars) to the homeless man with elephant feet, it hit me ... she doesn't see him ... she sees HIM!  Isn't that what the Lord tells us about his Kingdom - like little children.  Isn't it why he tells us to be more like them - they see past what the world sees and loves without abandon.  My little girl showed me that on the side of the street of Ethiopia, Africa.  This trip, it wasn't just a gift to them ... it was a gift to me!

As my sweet boy handed out cars to the children at the orphanage who all had HIV, I realized, he doesn't know what HIV is and well, it doesn't matter.  It doesn't matter!   As Dakota held hands and danced away with her precious new friend, it dawned on me ... she doesn't know her story, she doesn't care that she is an orphan ... it doesn't matter.   Every single one of those children are HIS!

As Canyon went to EVERY street kid he could find, I watched as he watched them.  Judgement wasn't on his face.  No, compassion and love were written all over him.  He sized them up and all I could think that he was thinking is that "that could be me".  "Daddy, Daddy, can I have some burr" he would say.  "I want to buy some gum".  We already had 10 packs ... but what is a few more when it means you get to support a child whose eyes you have just encountered.   It wasn't about the gum, Canyon was dying to play and know those children!  As he stood in the court building against the window, I saw him making sign language out into the street.  Looking out I saw a sweet street child he had befriended.  Never mind that they were probably signing to each other in two different languages ... it didn't matter.

"Yonas, can you pull over so I can buy that soccer ball" he would say.  Thinking that he had bought himself a souvenir, we all worried as it got the tar beat out of it during a game of soccer at the transitional home.  Adults all apologized that his "new" ball was now torn.  Canyon, looking at us with confusion of why we'd be so upset said "I didn't buy it for me ... I bought it to bless the man I purchased it from and to give to the kids so they could enjoy it".    That ball ... it didn't matter!

I will never be able to put our trip into words.  I will never be able to write on paper or on a blog what we experienced together.  Oh sure, the highlight was meeting our new brother and son, but what we had prayed would happen ... DID!

When asking Canyon if he could tell his friends one thing about Ethiopia, what would it be?  He responded "They live in greater poverty than I have ever seen and yet they have more joy and compassion than anyone I have ever met".

JOY ... complete dependence on HIM = JOY

Indeed, it is true what Matthew says "Whatever you do unto the least of these, you do unto me".
Canyon and Dakota had many encounters with their Savior during their sweet 11 days.   They saw him, they felt him and they loved him, with each smile and embrace of their new friends that had forever changed their hearts!  This was our biggest prayer ... and God answered it more than we could have ever asked or imagined.  Priceless!

*There were so many moments along the way that were those "perfect" picture moments in time.  But in our keeping with trying to love others (and not make them out to be like animals in the zoo - taking from them something as we "take" their picture), those moments were simply captured in my mind, but here are a few along the way that I did take*

Shopping at the "post office" - Canyon's favorite time to talk with all the street kids and "Shop" from their boxes of gum
Dakota shows the girls at the transitional home how to do crafts with pipe cleaners


Dakota and her new friend, Sentauyu

Fast friends, you would have thought they had known each other for years

Sweet kids at the transitional home who sang us some great songs


A visit to "AHOPE" (an orphanage with HIV+ children only) stole our hearts.  One little precious girl that climbed into Daddy's lap will not be soon forgotten!  Canyon enjoyed giving each little one a new car toy to play with

Ashenafi - soccer buds

Play time with new friends

One of my favorite moments of the trip - running into Tesfay, a precious boy who lives on the streets that I had met on my trip in February.  He remembered me .. and who could forget that smile.  Not me!  Here we are giggling and asking through broken language if indeed, we are who we both think each other is.  "Tesfay", I said, "that means HOPE" (what he told me in February".  

Zebene meeting us for the first time.  I can only imagine what his little mind is doing in that moment
Silly girls

If only Maliah was with us ... this would be a PERFECT picture

Our beautiful boy.  Those eyes and his smile stole our hearts!  


Saturday, December 10, 2011

November 3 - Maliah's Birthday

My girl is 6!!  It's only taken me a few months to get this out but I have a good excuse ... I was not only planning and celebrating a precious birthday this year but I was packing, organizing and preparing our family to head to Ethiopia to meet our newest brother, Zebene.

But November wouldn't be the same without a sweet celebration.  This year, we combined forces with Maliah's bestie ... Libby.  They are moving very soon to Amarillo (though I am not going to talk about that ... this is supposed to be a happy post) and so we had a joint birthday party over at the Foote's.
Of course, the girls had a great time and well, I have many many reasons to thank Cindy who by all accounts organized the majority of the precious day that was complete with of course, photo booths!

Here's a few pictures of the celebration!  Happy Birthday Beautiful Maliah!


















Tuesday, October 18, 2011

"fonetikly" writing.


Maliah's favorite activity is learning.  No, seriously, the girl is a sponge and as soon as she arrives home from school each day, she is right back to the kitchen table writing words, letters, coloring, cutting, doing addition facts, and reading books.  I realized, as she sat at the table the other day that I can officially say I am a "Homeschool" Mom.  Yep, indeed, I homeschool my kids every day after school and in addition, I send them to school for 7 more hours.  That's some serious learners!  

So, as Maliah was writing the other day she was interviewing her Daddy and asking him all sorts of questions.  I looked at her paper later to discover her words all phonetically written.  They made me giggle ... and I didn't want to forget so I thought I'd jot a few down here.  Canyon loves to hear about how when he spelled the word Indian, he wrote NDN.  Hey, it sounds like that right?  Well, Maliah had several pages ... here is her "writing".  

"Dadey Wut Do You Like" - Daddy, what do you like"?  
  1. "Zebruz" - Zebra's
  2. "Pezza" - Pizza
  3. "Chocklit" - Chocolate
  4. "Goldfissh" - Goldfish
  5. "Fissh" - fish
  6. "Cofe" - Coffee
  7. "Bukbed" - bunk bed
  8. "kikats" - kit kat 
  9. "ifons" - iphone
Maliah's Likes
  1. "Chinees food" - Chinese food
  2. "Wofrs" - Waffles
  3. "Wotrmelin" - Watermelon
  4. "Jes tooDay" - just today
  5. "Dofins and horsz" - Dolphins and horses
On another page, she wrote "Pez and Prite Pez".  I asked her and that was "Please and Pretty Please"
On the same note, I saw the word "tmorwow".  Giggling, I realize she is saying "tomorrow".
I then see the word "yesdrda".  Hilarious.  That is "yesterday".  
The last one I see is "ugin", or perhaps is that "again"?

My little homeschool girl.  In the 3 hours you spend each day after school practicing, I am certain that your little head is going 900 miles per hour.  I am always blown away at what you already know ... even before I "school" you.  On another note, your spelling of words often makes more sense to me than the way it is "suppose" to be.  

Monday, October 3, 2011

Monday Moment

As I made dinner last night, I looked out the window and saw this.  



A Daddy/Daughter moment.  Just hanging out, having conversation and checking in on each other.


Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Toothless Wonder

Look who lost her first tooth!  Someone please remind the Tooth Fairy that she has a job to do tonight and well, apparently, "pixie dust" is this little girl's toothless wish.

Maliah, "You're getting all growd up"!  


Sunday, September 25, 2011

My blue eyed beauty makes me giggle.  Today we had our "home study" update meeting for our adoption of "Z".  The social worker coming to our home had never met our family as during our first home study and 4 visits, we flew in Adela from Dallas (our agency's DSS).  Since then, AWAA has hired a social worker in our area and so today was our first meeting with her for our "update" (Texas home studies expire at one year so they must be "updated".

When a social worker leaves, it always makes you wonder how crazy she really thought your family was.  BUT ... when your social worker is greeted at the door by your blue eyed, whimsical beauty ... your mind goes into overdrive.

Then again, this is the same gal who told our SW during our home study for the adoption of Maliah that she "Had lots of wrinkles on her face" and asked if "she had a baby in her tummy".  Our SW was about 65 at the time.  I about died ... and was never so relieved to see that mail arrive putting my mind to rest if we "cleared".

Check out how Dakota was adorned today.  HAHA ... all you can do is laugh!  She brings "abundance" to LIFE.





Saturday, September 24, 2011

"Beat the Cat"

Maliah "Mommy, at school we read "Pete the Cat"


"What?  BEAT the cat! (Thinking to myself ... WHAT are they teaching my kids?)

Canyon, across the table with a mouth full of drink, spews into laughter (literally)
I get drenched ... in my face, in my plate ... you name it.

The table goes into a complete uproar of laughter.  Yep, welcome to dinner at the Martine's.

The next day ... Maliah draws, cuts out and glues together for us her special friend.  Too bad for her, his name will never be "Pete" with a serious face in our house.

Maliah, I loved your cat!  It will always make me smile.